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Frequently Asked Questions
Traditions vary widely: many families split by event — one side hosts the ceremony, the other the reception — while modern couples increasingly share costs with both families. There is no single rule; the healthiest answer is an early, honest conversation.
A typical spread runs roka or engagement, mehndi, sangeet, the wedding ceremony, and a reception — with haldi and valima in many families. Scale to budget and energy; combining events is completely acceptable.
Bridal mehndi typically takes four to six hours for intricate work, so artists start the bride early or the evening before. Guests' simple designs take ten to twenty minutes each.
Festive Indian wear suits every event, with brighter colors for mehndi and sangeet and richer attire for the ceremony. When in doubt, ask the family — and avoid outfits that match the bride's palette too closely.
When the baraat arrives, matched pairs of male relatives from both sides greet each other with garlands and hugs, usually in seniority order. It is warm, sometimes hilarious, and occasionally competitive.
Tradition grants the groom some leeway, but venues and caterers do not. Treat the printed time as real — a baraat more than forty-five minutes late risks the meal service and the officiant's schedule.
Where tipping is customary, many families budget a modest thank-you for exceptional service — often coordinated by the planner in labeled envelopes. Agree amounts in advance so day-of decisions are emotional, not financial.
Guest lists are the most sensitive document in a South Asian wedding. Set a number with both families early, agree on how cousins-plus-children are counted, and accept that some feelings are the price of a finite venue.
The mehndi centers on henna application with soft music and food; the sangeet is the musical night of performances and dancing. Many families combine them into one grand evening.
Yes — interfaith couples commonly hold two ceremonies or a joint ceremony led by both officiants. Our officiants on ShaadiPros have guided hundreds of fusion weddings.
Pick the rituals that matter most to each side, sequence them thoughtfully, and explain each in the program so every guest feels included rather than confused.
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